From the Archive: An Email

**This is an email I received from a ‘fan’ a couple of years back and thought I would post it; it helps me to remember that I am desirable, and if it helps just one other larger lady realise it too, then it would make me a very happy pleased thing! **

“First, and the most important, you have a brain.  Intelligent women are always attractive; men like a woman who can argue with them on an equal level (some even like a woman to be able to talk down to them!).  Intelligence is an aphrodisiac.  Also the brain is the biggest and most powerful sex organ in the body.  So you are streets ahead of all those fluffy bimbos.

Second you are shy. God love us, but men love shy women.  It must be to do with your vulnerability, it appeals to the masculine genes.  It’s not that you are open to abuse but that you are willing to be shown what guys like and boy do they like to show you what they like!!  Of course half the time it’s nothing you want but the other half you can take and mould as you wish.  Despite everything you read or hear we are putty in your hands!

Already you are a sex kitten and we haven’t even touched your body………………..what a divine thought!

Now your body. Where to start. Obvious place your big breasts.  Despite some proclaiming that more than a handful is a waste most men are ‘tit’ men, we like them big, we like to carress them, to suckle on them and generally to enjoy there look and feel. Plus points to you again.

Next your thighs.  Leg men claim that they love slim legs that go on forever, phooey!  When a man settles down (or is forced) between a woman’s thighs to do what a good man should (worship her epicentre with his mouth and his tongue), does he want the possibility of a bone grinding on his face?  Of course not, what he wants is a well padded thigh where he can rest his head as he pleasures his lady (in some cases he also likes the idea if that if the woman feels like it she can damn near crush him….a thought that could have him cumming quicker than you wish, lol).  More plus points to you.

Your bottom. What is there to say about your bottom?  Lots but it is easiest expressed thus. Men like big bottoms.  Ask an honest man about what constitutes and oversized bottom he will tell you that there ain’t no thing as  a booty that is too big.  We love them, every inch.  More plus points.

Your epicentre (your vagina, your pussy, your cunt, whatever you call it depending on where you arousal is at that particular moment) is beautiful  I don’t even have to look, it is divine.  Fat, skinny, black or white, they are all beautiful.  The ugly one does not exist.

Your tummy, your oh so lovely belly.  So, your man has just driven you wild with his friendly attack on your epicentre, you are both exhausted.  Does he want to rest his head on a hard washboard?  No, a nice, soft, pillowy belly is perfect.  Lying there inches from your aromatic epicentre, the most comfortable place on the planet at that time.  Close enough your  aroma fills his nostrils, close enough you can lay your hands on his head and, if you wish, encourage him to start again. You win again.”

Thank you Jim .. I can’t tell you how lovely it was to receive that .. and it helps me to understand a little why I have fans .. and hope for the future ..!


Looking Forward to 2017

I usually set myself goals each year, rather than resolutions.  I set them for myself personally and my businesses, but this year I thought I would set myself some that pertain more to this side of myself.  Some of the items on this list will seem a little  ‘easy’ for some people and some will seem totally random for others – please just respect that all of the items I have listed are listed for a reason and are things that I want to improve on or challenge myself with this coming year.

I would love to know what you think and whether you think there is something missing that should be aded to the list too – remember this is just what I want to achieve this coming year, and not a bucket list – that will come later!

Blogging / Writing

  1. Write and post at least one erotic short story once a month on my blog not linked to any meme.
  2. Submit to e[Lust] 4 times.
  3. Post on my blog a minimum of 100 times.
  4. Read and Review 2 erotic books.
  5. Watch and Review 2 erotic films.
  6. Test and Review 2 erotic toys / pieces of equipment.
  7. Reach 1,001 views on my blog.
  8. Take part in Wicked Wednesday 12 times.
  9. Have 2,017 followers on Twitter.
  10. Write a ’99 Things about Me’ post.
  11. Comment on 52 different blogs.
  12. Get 12 people to guest post for the blog.
  13. Write a post for the Pussy Pride Project.


  1. Flesh out the idea and plans for ‘Project A’.
  2. Launch / Post about ‘Project A’.
  3. Write 12 Posts linked to ‘Project A’.
  4. Flesh out the idea and plans for ‘Project B’.
  5. Launch / Post about ‘Project B’.
  6. Write 12 Posts linked to ‘Project B’.
  7. Flesh out the idea and plans for ‘Project C’.
  8. Launch / Post about ‘Project C’.
  9. Write 12 Posts linked to ‘Project C’.


  1. Knock off 12 places for the Scavenger Hunt.
  2. Create a page on my blog for my Scavenger Hunt images.
  3. Have someone take some arty-naughty pictures of me.
  4. Complete an A-Z ‘naughty’ photography challenge.
  5. Take part in Sinful Sunday 12 times.


  1. Have Sex!
  2. Masturbate on cam.
  3. Be fingered to orgasm.
  4. Orgasm 3 times in one day (with someone else,not myself).
  5. Squirt.
  6. Have sex outdoors.
  7. Have sex in a car.
  8. Get some nipple clamps.


  1. Attend a local munch.
  2. Explore my Domme side with someone.
  3. Explore my submissive side with the right person.
  4. Be spanked, properly.

Personal Care and Development

  1. Have a Manicure.
  2. Have a Pedicure.
  3. Get my eyelashes dyed.
  4. Wear a skirt 12 times.
  5. Wear prettier underwear at least 52 times.
  6. Wear pretty shoes at least 12 times.


  1. Attend Eroticon.
  2. Meet 20 other bloggers / kinky peeps in person.
  3. Make £100 with this blog or associated accounts.